fun. food. company.  That’s what makes a great party! You can control the food and you can control the company.  But we’ve all been to those parties that well, just weren’t that fun.  Wedding showers can be a little challenging because you’re joining families that often times don’t know each other.

 It’s really not that complicated though.  Firstly, the host should have a gift for entertaining~ they know how to make people feel comfortable. Secondly, know your audience! Who’s coming? Are there generations to consider? What type of personality does the bride have? Is she shy but a good sport? Sassy and adventuresome… Knowing your audience will dictate the direction of your party and the “games” you play.

One of the games we played at a recent bridal shower was the Memory Game.  The hostess laid out about 10 things for us to try and memorize.  After about 2 minutes or so, she whisked it away and with reckless humility, we saw just how good or not so good our memories were… BUT, the funny part…

We then had to create a story based on the items that were in the tray.  There were lots of different stories… from sweet to let’s say…sassy! This game definitely got some laughs. The audience could handle it!

 Bride Bakes Cake Set out a bunch of ingredients and have the bride make a cake to actually bake and eat! Chances are, it won’t taste that good but everyone will get lots of laughs watching her try to muster something up! The gradmas in the group will love it!

Recipe Cards Ask each guest to write out their favorite recipe on a card. the hostess can then put them into a scrap/recipe book. I LOVE this! A little note alongside the recipe is sentimental and a lifelong gift.

A must-do Have each guest write their name and address on a Thank You envelope.  This will help out the bride immensely…

Do you have a favorite shower game? Please share!

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